Children are one of the reasons many people have weddings in the first place – it can symbolize the start of a family! The child(ren) at your wedding may be those of your guests, your own, or a member of your new blended family.
The decision to allow children at your wedding is a personal one that depends on your preferences, the style of your wedding, and your relationship with the guests. Here are some factors to consider when making this decision:
- Personal Preference: First and foremost, consider what you and your partner want for your wedding day. Some couples love having children at their wedding, as it adds a family-friendly and joyous atmosphere. Others may prefer an adults-only affair, allowing for a more sophisticated and formal celebration.
- Wedding Style: Think about the overall style and tone of your wedding. If you are having a casual, outdoor, or daytime wedding, children might feel more at ease and fit naturally into the setting. On the other hand, if you are hosting a formal, evening event, some parents may appreciate having a child-free evening to fully enjoy the festivities.
- Guest List: Take into account the number of children on your guest list. If there are only a few young children attending, it might be easier to accommodate them. However, if a significant portion of your guest list includes children, it could impact the dynamics of the event.
- Childcare Arrangements: Consider whether you can provide childcare services during the wedding. Some couples opt to hire professional babysitters or set up a separate area with activities for children to keep them entertained throughout the celebration.
- Family Dynamics: Analyze your relationships with family members and friends who have children. If some close relatives or friends have young children, it could be important to include them to avoid hurt feelings.
- Budget: Including children may impact your budget, as you may need to provide additional meals, seating, and entertainment options for them. Make sure you have the resources to accommodate children if you decide to invite them.
- Communication: Whatever your decision, it’s crucial to communicate it clearly on the wedding invitations or through a separate message to your guests. This way, parents can plan accordingly and make necessary arrangements.
If you choose to include children at your wedding, the 1812 Hitching Post is child friendly! We provide a playroom for youngsters next to the bride’s dressing room and we have outdoor games and play equipment for children to enjoy.
At one wedding, the guests were given a “key” party favor. The kids took the old-fashioned looking keys and tried them on all the door locks in the house to see if they would fit. They were delighted when I gave them some actual vintage keys to try! Children will find the fun and your photographer will get the best photos ever!
Ultimately, there is no right or wrong answer. It’s your special day, and the choice should align with your vision and values as a couple. Whether you decide to include children or have an adults-only celebration, it is important that you and your partner feel comfortable and happy with the decision you make.
